Living life, Opinion, Reflection, The Self, Writing

Naked… Nude… Pornography…

(WARNING: Content for persons over 15 years old and may offend :-)) Naked… Nude… Pornography… What’s the difference? Not a lot, and a matter of perception. As I found out during a tour of the ‘Nude: from the Tate Collection’ exhibition, “naked” is merely without clothes and common and “nude” is an idealised artistic expression… Continue reading Naked… Nude… Pornography…

In relationship, Living life, Quotes

Selfish loving – Ayn Rand

“Love is blind, they say; sex is impervious to reason and mocks the power of all philosophers. But, in fact, a person's sexual choice is the result and sum of their fundamental convictions. Tell me what a person finds sexually attractive and I will tell you their entire philosophy of life. Show me the person… Continue reading Selfish loving – Ayn Rand

Being Woman, In relationship, Living life

50 Shades – Storm in a Teacup a Woman’s Thoughts by @FTThum

A different view on Fifty Shades of Grey…

Lit World Interviews

50 shades of grey

I asked Florence to write a piece about 50 Shades of Grey since she had both read the books and seen the movie. With her therapist and lawyer/professor background I thought it would an interesting and intelligent experience for us all. Did it turn out as I expected? Read and find out. If you dare. If I were you, I might hide.~Ronovan

Fifty Shades of Grey (’50 Shades’) – trilogy and movie – have caused quite a storm in the media. Its critics have labelled it anti-feminist, for glorifying abuse and violence, for normalising domestic violence, and the list goes on.

In the wake of socio-political discourses rippling through social and news media, I (and eleven gal pals) went to see it on the second day after it was released.


The story in a nut shell

A little about the trilogy and the movie for those who have not read…

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Visions Watching you watching me Your gaze bold Igniting the ardent flame Scorches my soul Flicker of light Your eyes unwavering   Seduction of the night My will unresisting Touch lingers skin on skin Familiar terrain now foreign Yearning swells within Desire reigns Lips in sensual motion Devours possesses Like alchemic potion Demands acquiescence My… Continue reading Visions

Talking dirty

Talking dirty (A) Advice

Talking dirty? To put this in context, see the first post in this series of how this began. This is by the interesting, often controversial and sassy Mae West (1893 -1980):   "A man can be a great lover, but no matter how well he performs, sex won't compensate for personality, intelligence, consideration, and whatever… Continue reading Talking dirty (A) Advice

In relationship, Living life

Is it in your head or in your . . . What’s up with Sex?

My name is Ronovan and how did I get here and get talked into this subject? Florence gets a little busy in her world and she looks to me and says, "Hey, want to do a guest blog for me?" "Sure, what do you want me to talk about?" I ask all innocently thinking it… Continue reading Is it in your head or in your . . . What’s up with Sex?

Quotes, Talking dirty

Talking dirty (A) Acting

Okay, I've got to be honest, this isn't what you think it is. In fact it wasn't what I thought it to be either. The first paragraph to the 'Introduction' of 'Talking Dirty' by Carole McKenzie says: "The interpretation of sex and sexual pursuits seen as harmless to some is sure to be condemned as… Continue reading Talking dirty (A) Acting

Living life, Spirit & Soul

Soulful sexuality in daily life

I wrote about sex as a soul experience some three weeks ago… and somehow it felt incomplete. Then it hit me… the thought which had remained was … how will this translate to daily life? So here it is… soulful sexuality in everyday life… Let’s begin in the shadow 🙂 If we accept the premise… Continue reading Soulful sexuality in daily life

In relationship, Living life, Spirit & Soul, The Self

Soul experience of sex

Sex, sex, sex… that got your attention, 🙂 ? We know what ‘it’ is, don’t we? And how disappointing some of ‘it’ can be. There IS more to sex than what's being portrayed in the media and beyond the discourse of rights and freedom. Sex has soul. In fact, sex is an experience of soul. … Continue reading Soul experience of sex