Let it be…

Today is strange in that I do not know what to make of it. My mind struggles with labels. In many ways I am grateful for the year that has passed, for the voices of support, the strong arms which held, the love enfolding. I am grateful for a life continuing to unfold with ‘yes’ … Continue reading Let it be…

Advertisements

Stop being nice

That was a nice visit! The food was nice! It’s nice being here with you! Be nice! ‘Nice’ – a most overused word and ineffectual, I think. When applied to a person, it is also highly nuanced and culture-subjective. What is your imagery of a ‘nice' person? Ever wondered why we are nice? When others … Continue reading Stop being nice

Romantic love is not dead…

It isn't a blue moon tonight, is it?! I had a 'free' day to myself, a rare occurrence indeed. And found myself before the television after dinner, another rare occurrence... Anyhow, I stumbled upon a rerun of the 2008 movie, 'Nights in Rodanthe'. Being a teeny fan of Richard Gere (yes, I am showing my … Continue reading Romantic love is not dead…

Woman of your dreams

If you could be the woman of your dreams, who would you be? My answer: Me, myself and I.  No matter what my experiences might have been, are and may be, they are just that, experiences.  And I live them.  As you do yours.  You are amazing! 🙂     If you could be the … Continue reading Woman of your dreams

One Lovely Blog Award

Thank you, Michelle, for the nomination I did say I would get to it... so here I am albeit 4 months later :-). Here are 7 facts about me, not already known from elsewhere on here.  I am a romantic. There, I said it.  Much as I'd like to deny it, a review of my … Continue reading One Lovely Blog Award

All is well

It has been an incredibly demanding 3 weeks – physically, mentally and psychologically; and it culminated in my speaking at a conference out of town. Well, that was yesterday. And now, sitting here alone in the hotel room I have the opportunity to let it all settle in, within me. All is well. These 3 … Continue reading All is well

Running with the wolves #BeWow

Nature is miraculous. It is wild and ruthless one day, yet calm and peaceful the next. It is highly selective yet sustains itself. It beats a rhythm I often missed, in the bustle of everyday living - a rhythm of an instinctual life. I once read a book about women running with wolves...and since then, … Continue reading Running with the wolves #BeWow

Open wide

“When we open ourselves wide to love, we open ourselves to every imaginable heartache as well as every conceivable joy… That has to be better than flatlining ourselves through fear… don’t you think?”

Be open to the human experience.

The Silent Eye

EKG-Green

To love and be loved… something that sits at the heart of every child. It is only as we grow that the accumulated disappointments, the rejections large and small, teach us to shield our hearts against being hurt again. We all get hurt as we grow… even the happiest childhood will carry the shadows of events, unnoticed and unintended perhaps, that have squeezed the little heart tightly. It may be no more than a ‘Not now’ from a busy parent engaged in something that is not safe for the child… with the best of intentions… but to the small person wanting to show that parent a caterpillar they found, it is a rejection. We all suffer them and learn, brick by brick, how to build a defensive barrier around our emotions.

We are taught that emotions have a time and place too. Some are socially acceptable. We can be calm…

View original post 681 more words

Finding Happiness.

Hello to all. Florence doesn't know I'm here right now so please...don't tell I came for a visit. "To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance."~Oscar Wilde I give a great deal of thought each day on achieving happiness. Actually thinking in great depth about something brings me happiness, so I guess I … Continue reading Finding Happiness.

I can… it is done #BeWow

Well, I kept the promise to myself to meditate for 30 minutes every day for the month of May. Mid-way through this Mindful in May challenge, I decided to extend myself to meditating morning and night. For a long time now, I have dabbled with meditation, knowing full well its positive impact on my day, … Continue reading I can… it is done #BeWow

The Dream of Life – a #BeWow post

For this post as part of the #BeWow hashtag (an initiative of RonovanWrites), I share with you Alan Watts' perspective on 'The Dream of Life'. This is a must-watch 🙂 which will change your view about life or at least provoke you to re-evaluate. Enjoy!     For you who are asking, Alan Watts (1915-1973) … Continue reading The Dream of Life – a #BeWow post