Love is romantic.
Each person in a relationship of real love is both giver and recipient. As Lao Tzu said, to love deeply gives one courage, the courage to be and the courage to do what she desires. And the knowledge of being loved deeply gives one strength to be vulnerable. It is in this open receptive space, beauty emerges. The soul speaks and its language, these acts of romance naturally come – authentic, generous and unique. There is no prescription of how they should be – no rule of single or a dozen red roses nor Hallmark cards on Valentine’s Day.
Romance is not love, not always. A feeling of excitement and mystery does not love makes. Of itself, devoid of love, romance is merely a series of calculated acts. And some would say, a product of good advertising and commercialism.
Within love, romance manifests in everyday happenings, every day which makes up a life together. It is in the kind consideration, the gentle persuasion, the vehement support, the worrying frowns, the distracting humor…
It is in
- the way she greets him which says ‘I miss you’
- the way he holds her hand which says, ‘I’m here”
- the way she smiles at him which says ‘welcome home’
- the way he looks into her eyes which says ‘you are beautiful’
- the way she touches his shoulder which says, ‘I see your strength’.
- the way they say good night which confirms ‘you are mine’.
Every gesture unique to the love relationship, meaningful and true only to its giver and recipient.
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